....................a mate!
Here are the two hapless males who showed up one afternoon. They were literally crawling over each other to get the girl:

Now, you read about these things and think, oh, the life of a male mantis is, well, kinda brutal. But fair, I guess, I mean in a natural sort of way, right? Maybe it's a way for the female mantis to ensure that only she gets to pass on the male genetic load, something like that....Sucky, but then you move on.
Somehow the reality was a little more, well, visceral. I never saw the other male again......

Here's the last bits of her meal, er, mate. The head and feet are gone, just sticks and chips left:

At least nothing goes to waste. High-maintenance girl, high protein boy.......